We pulled into the marina at Old Port Cove in North Palm Beach. Tiger Woods and a Daytona 500 driver are our neighbors for the next few days. Their boats are on our dock.
Today, I realized it felt like I'm mourning someone who is dying. I just kept busting out in sobs. Like uncontrollable, but trying to stop so I could see and keep working. She was a huge part of our life for so long. It IS a mourning process. (After I wrote this part, I was rereading the first few blog posts and wrote something similar about our initial catamaran purchase that didn't go through. Looking back, that seems silly since we have spent so much time on this boat and were on the other for less than 12 hours!)
The girls are sad and Bear is mad that I keep reminding everyone about things being the last time of whatever it is we do. I think Moose is ready for a new boat. 🤣 I shouldn't think about it being the last time for things because that just makes it so much harder, BUT it also helps to be aware and soak it in, otherwise I'd be even more sad to find that I missed out after the fact.
We spent all day on the 26th and 27th purging, packing, sorting, and cleaning with the help of our amazingly helpful kids. All we had to pay them was their own pack of Skittles! What a deal.
Here is yet another shoutout to Uncle Paul and Aunt Denise for meeting us at the dock, dropping off unlimited cold beverages, hauling loads to their car, unloading countless bins (actually, it was around 20) into their garage, being our chauffeur, feeding us, providing a home and beds to sleep in, allowing our kids to enjoy their pool and electronics, free childcare, and for taking the kids to the beach to sift through the sand and find their very first shark teeth while Ben and I finished working on the boat. We are so grateful not only for these things, but for the love, friendship, conversations, advice, and memories as well.
This is where our family maritime journey ends. [...for now?] Ben and I will take the boat to Fort Pierce on the 28th, anchor out and finish cleaning, and then bring it to the marina in the morning on the 29th where she will get detailed and stay until the survey ends on the 31st.
Insurance companies require a boat survey, which is like a house inspection, for certain boat purchases (if they're older than 10-20+ years, valued at $35k-50k+, or longer than 30 ft). The surveyor is selected and paid for by the buyer. We did ours, sight unseen, in Rhode Island in 2021. The surveyor then writes a report and shares it with the buyer who sends it to the insurance provider, and acts as a formal agreement to seal the deal. This process takes a few weeks, so after the survey, the boat will go back to the dock where she lived- and where we started our Loop- for a while in Sebastian.
The kids and I will meet Ben at that dock for our final goodbye after the survey. Then we will get up early on the 1st and start the 28ish hour drive home.